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Is it right to hate the little things?
« on: December 24, 2002, 11:07:16 AM »
Guess I'll start this board off.

They reckon if you love the little things abt a person then ur n luv.

but what if you luv the person in general but the little things annoy the shit out of u.

help any1?

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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #1 on: December 26, 2002, 04:03:02 AM »
my 2 cents:

If you love the person but every little thing annoy the shit out of you then it is time to revisit the relationship and move it to another level so that the little things dont take over and turn your love for that person in to hatered  ;)

hope this give some food for thought
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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #2 on: December 26, 2002, 07:52:11 AM »
still doesn't help  ???

its more that she lives away from me so i don't see her much and when shes not with me the txts, phone calls etc.. irritate me

but when shes with me its fine. i wanna stay with her but is it the right thing?

because i get all stressed through the week because of her and then i enjoy the weekend with her?

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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #3 on: December 27, 2002, 05:31:14 AM »
Then learn you must to communicate better my young padawan! Address your irritation and need for space with her and see where that leads your relationship.  :-X
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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #4 on: December 27, 2002, 05:36:21 AM »
i did abt 6 months ago and we nearly split up, but when i do talk to her shes ok for a bit then it just goes the same.

and if i didn't answer my phone she would go mad at me saying how much she was worried...

shes just a bit of a loon that way

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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2003, 07:16:35 AM »
So move in with her.
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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #6 on: January 08, 2003, 03:46:37 PM »
i dunno about that mate.  not really thought much about it.   things have been better over the holidays.  let's see how the new year goes   :-/
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Re: Is it right to hate the little things?
« Reply #7 on: September 02, 2003, 02:53:03 PM »
typical girlie stuff...so how are things now?
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